I've updated our spine-ue4 documentation with sections on upgrading to Unreal Engine 5.3 (or not...) and how to export assets for Unreal Engine 5.3 projects:
https://esotericsoftware.com/spine-ue4#Exporting-for-Unreal-Engine-5.3
Sorry for the inconvenience. The ball is in Epic's park I'm afraid.